Considerate of love revive water

There are couples, all day long in order to trivial bickering, and finally was referred to divorce. Although the lips say "could not pass up," "from the off, afraid," but in fact no one wanted to run away from the heart, especially when the wife does not want to really get that far. 

She came to me and asked how to save her husband's heart, so that feelings can return to the past. 

Actually very simple. You can not fight it? You start with a period of not quarrel day started right. Remember how love is the beginning of love is to see each other from the beginning they were filled with sunshine, ah, saw rejoice, do not meet, miss, when will a person secretly laugh. 

Has a natural sense of happiness, which is one of the characteristics of love. 

However, not. She said. She has also been tried, do not quarrel, have something good to say, only time will soon encounter problems making the same mistakes. I listened to her story, household chores are trivial, irrelevant principle, just reach unity, can not agree with each other. 

I asked her: "? Do you love him," she said love. 

Love him so why can not a little tolerance, love him why not let him feel happy, it is not love out of the question, but the ability and skills of love out of the question. 

Of course, this problem is two-way, for she is the case, he is also applicable. Many people can not get hospice love, desire and love are the ability to love does not match my heart filled with love, a thousand words, but very few can express love in lost gradually wither. 

I said to her, love even the ever-changing, but there is a basic practical logic, that is, if you can not make a person feel that you are good to him, and that you are not qualified to say that they loved him. 

"Good" is what is concerned, considerate, loving, forgiving, is unpleasant days can be used to honor the things, like checks, not just a piece of paper printed with numbers. 

Pure love just an idealized spiritual realm, in reality, ordinary people used to live is to love, and to accept the challenge and disseminated daily necessities. 

This truth, to speak out is easy, the difficulty is to practice. Sometimes, love is often wishes inert day arrived, but every day thinking about change, but all get rid of every day, until finally, found everything was too late. After then went regret too late, obviously you can feel better on the other side, that all disputes in fact have no meaning. 

But the broken heart, to how to get warm hot? Love is no life, soul To stranger go? 

Brother Leslie Tang fell in love with the wife and the same two decades, this has been accepted suspicion, blame, feelings of defamation after his death increasingly been recognized by the world, RTHK named "The wind playing ghost lovers", he and he more than half of the voting rate was first elected, more than all the famous heterosexual lovers. For how to operate the feelings, Mr. Zhang has said that the secret lies in mutual caring, "Over the years, of course, occurred during a lot of problems. Everyone will encounter a lot of things every day, the other is an independent individual, you have to respect that. Other also there will be a lot of things happen, smug, unhappy you encounter Chengyi, just wanton tantrum in front of each other, and then continue to make excuses, last resort. turn to each other in front of their complaints, tantrums , but you selfishly closed ears, indifferent. so two people's problems will accumulate, unilateral pay is to succeed. accumulate too many problems, it will affect the feelings between two people, I will not allow this the situation. "

This is a very practical philosophy is very true love. He was able to have such a period of perfect love, not merely because he has fabulous looks and talent, but because of his thorough understanding of the true meaning of love in that respect, equality, understanding and tolerance. Many people do not loved, or love dying, will be attributed to their own habits is not beautiful, not good enough, accused each other of not enough stick. But time and talent all the beautiful polished, dispersed all the glitz, leaving only the most common one pair of lovers. 

Comes to personality, who has a stronger personality Zhang. He said: "If I were to fault, of course I will take the initiative to apologize to each other, do must be unreasonable, I am absolutely not a male chauvinist, but stubborn by nature, do not love casually accommodate others, the couple were no exception. "the strong personality is evident. He's like Don Quixote art scene, a person challenging the entire era aesthetics of the whole society, and always at the forefront of the crowd, there is a not to be understood alone. He was too proud, proud to staunch, no compromise, on their own, outside the requirements are so high. "Other people can be 100 percent satisfied with the stuff, I can only be satisfied only 70% ...... I do not know why that is so." Pursuit of perfection so that he continues to progress, but will often make him into a sense of anxiety, "when things are not as expected results, will make his anxiety into the surrounding air like taut strings. he himself too seriously, even their own can not explain." 

These qualities will be able to help him on stage to become the most shining star, but in love, is simply the most fatal injuries. Artist's temper and temperament, disposition and innocent children in general, such a combination would make him become a great artist, but it is difficult to get along the best lovers. Tell a little story, when enthusiastic concert in Malaysia that field, after the end of the concert, because let comb hair, he felt he did not perform well, very happy. Tang sent him a cup of tea, I know he did, took the cup the cup fell to the ground, while Tang it, but nothing had happened, smiling to him and then pour a cup ...... two people as master blows, a round trip of Room has been a winner, his anger disappeared in Tang's soft inside. 

Understand it, they love, building understanding, considerate, above complementary, "I know what kind of person you are, I'll do another one commensurate with your people." This is Mr. Tang love experience. In this relationship, we have to pay, also have obtained the proper way to get along appropriateness of melted sharp personality. 

Leslie's friend 魏绍恩 said: "A World Tang Hede is Leslie lifetime maximum lucky Mr. Zhang does not believe in fate unbelief shipped without him bursting with confidence that he speaks vicious his ambition good strong he believed everything he got all he deserved except Daffy.... that is God gave his guardian angel, let no foot birdie find placement in a precarious life dangerous whirlpool. no net no Don Don's hard to enrich his desire to complete his beingdesired (anticipated), and Leslie story will be different. "

Yes, no love, no love across the line of fire, arrived at the end of happiness, our stories are not the same, 

Mr. Zhang said, only thoughtful, is love of resurrection water. His humility Tang regarded as God will reward to his baby, but in fact he and his all hard work and labor in love too. 

If you want to shock the feelings of any lasting, will inevitably fall into the stereotypes of life, the days and nights have opposed secular bear baptism. Could not pass this off, will fail. At this point, heterosexual or, gay or whatever, standing in the same reference line, is no different. We always envy other people full of love, but did not see other people's pay and patience. 

Hurt a love is easy, bickering, jealousy, accusations, arbitrary, demanding, a lot of negative emotions and behaviors are natural enemies of love. Sometimes, it can be more simple, just everyone on their position occupied intransigence, is enough to cast a shadow of love. 

When everyone thought he was right, when love is often wasted step. 

How to make love reborn in a while already scarred relationship, not only to disturb and harm, both to lay down their arms and forget about the outcome, we can bring back the love of the soul has gone.